When they tell you (and act like) they like you, but you haven't spent the night together in over a month? Is it naive to assume that this isn't the tepid shoulder of death?<br><br>-------<br>Aren't you a little old for post-modern nostalgic irony?
Uh...no. Kick this one to the curb, my friend. There are over a billion women in the world you could be tapping this weekend. She ain't one of them. <br><br>Move on. <br><br>
Registered: 04/21/02
Posts: 4452
Loc: New Hampshire
My wife and I were friends for several years before dating. I recommend developing a friendship first.<br><br>btw, we officially probably went on 3 dates and then moved in together for less than a year, then I proposed. I guess we got ripped off in the dating department, but who really cares - we don't. We're best friends, lovers and married.<br><br>Sorry if this is too much information.<br><br><br><br>
#230652 - 05/23/0509:27 PMRe: Dating - What's It Mean?
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iRock
Livin' on the road my friend
Registered: 05/19/01
Posts: 10169
Loc: Pacific NW, USA
Has this person wanted to stay together overnight and now doesn't? Maybe it's best to ask them? If you can't talk about it in person maybe an email to see where you stand. Not knowing the parties involved it's hard to say. I wish I could be more help for you. It kind of sounds like a cooling off, but maybe they have some troubles going on like family or work trouble they can't bring themselves to share. I hope it is something that passes and you get back on track. If you need someone to just listen give a shout.<br><br>
#230653 - 05/23/0509:31 PMRe: Dating - What's It Mean?
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MrsJonnyCat
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Registered: 10/18/02
Posts: 944
<blockquote><font size=1>In reply to:</font><hr><p>I guess we got ripped off in the dating department<p><hr></blockquote><p>We? I got ripped off - you still owe me 4,999 more dates. <br><br>It's a good thing we had the premium benefit package while we were just friends :D<br><br><br>When your thoughts are too expensive to ever wanna keep, sell them on eBay
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<blockquote><font size=1>In reply to:</font><hr><p>It's a good thing we had the premium benefit package while we were just friends :D<p><hr></blockquote><p>Which reminds me, I gotta go re-enroll in a few of my benefit packages. <br><br>
#230655 - 05/23/0509:34 PMRe: Dating - What's It Mean?
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Walrus
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Registered: 01/29/04
Posts: 883
Loc: Duluth, Miinesota
Carpe diem<br><br>If you really want this lady, offer a comittment. If your only interest is an occasional nookie, let it go.<br><br>One way or the other, you need closure - and then move on.<br><br>[color:red]Bibo, ergo sum</font color=red>
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