Here is my view:<br><br>- In a "Dating relationship" whoever is on the top in the bedroom should pay fo the dinner. (I have always paid for all dinners for all the girls I ever took out on a "date") A girl is like a flower you went and picked so you should at least put her in water and light before taking a closer smell.<br><br>- In a "Loving relationship" money should be put together in a joint account and noone should care about how much the other person makes. Money comes and goes and I have seen it do so many many times. Love is more powerful than anything in this world. It can move mountains and make the sun come up on the sky every morning. There is no price you can put on love nor should money ever come in between 2 loving people.<br><br>- Also, humans still abey by the animal laws no matter how smart. The male wants to stick it in as fast as possible while the female wants a male that could provide for the family in the future. It is natural instinct and almost impossible to control. - Unless it is love at first sight....<br><br>- And all these ideas are coming from a guy (me) who takes out a girl on a first date in a bus while going for a free walk on the side of the river in a nice park. I tend to go for the loving ones more than the slutty ones and this technique is just natural selection! <br><br>_________________________________________<br>http://www.geocities.com/djstefan/bush.gif

And yet you're still single?<br><br>

<br>Yup Yup Yup<br><br>Basic Biology:<br>Part of the initial bonding<br>He's was overlooking that "The Feeding Ritual"<br>and the "Showing that you can provide" ritual,<br>that effectively stimulates a woman's hormones.<br><br>Like it or not, we're all still animals;<br>on the root level (...waits for TB to snigger...)<br>driven by instincts, hormones, & pheromones.<br><br>It's only after those cues are satisfied that we<br>move on to the next level of intimacy.<br><br>Cheaping out from square one will leave you<br>dating Rosey Palmer more often than not.<br><br><br> <br><br>[color:green]"...or am I a butterfly that's dreaming she's a woman?"</font color=green>

Too many to pick from, but a real love long gone... <br><br>Also, let me rephrase the flower part: <br> - Light: to make sure she is pretty<br> - Water: most likely she is dirty<br> - Smell: Lets not go there. <br> - just joking<br><br>_________________________________________<br>http://www.geocities.com/djstefan/bush.gif

Yeah, I remember what it was like to be like you. Not knowing the reality of the world.<br><br>Love is like building a bridge with a hammer and no nails. It doesn't matter if you love someone enough to move mountains. If they don't love you back, you're screwed. Is it the most powerful? No. Let me say that again. Capital N capital O. NO. It's money. The largest percent of failed marriages is about money.<br><br>And that whole animal thing? If that we're true, we'd be clubbing our women and dragging them around by the hair. We are not animals, we are human beings. Animals pretending to be human beings are called rapists.<br><br>You can treat a woman like a queen, but if you can't bring the jewels to go with it, she'll be gone so fast, they'll be friction burns in the carpet. <br><br>Women complain they don't want to be treated like objects. And yet, they have to be bought or they won't spend the time of day with you. You want a girl, you have to buy her dinner. Buy her gifts, birthday, Valentines, what ever. <br><br>That's the long and short of it.<br><br>

You've got lots to learn... and I see now that you've got quite a lot about women to learn too. I can pick up the phone and have a list long of girls I could bring home tonight. Also, in a week I could have at least 3 girls that would marry me. <br><br>In this domain I know pretty well what I'm talking about. <br><br>On your first date, show up with a rose at her door, take her out on the bus where you can talk and look at each-other, then go to a park where the beauty of nature will get her hormones jumping to the sky and give you the possibility of putting your hands around her. <br><br>- Take her to a movie, it's dark, loud and you can't talk<br>- Take her to a restaurant, she will be more interested in the food than you.<br>- Take her in your car, you have to drive and not look at her all the time.<br><br><br>- Money comes only after romance in a women's heart, always remember that! - Unless youre dead ugly and stink a mile away! <br><br>I always wondered how come girls appreciated all this romance soo much here on the North American Contienent, but from your words and those of GOP, I understand now! Go to europe and see how guys treat girls on their first date. Romance is the key!<br><br>_________________________________________<br>http://www.geocities.com/djstefan/bush.gif<P ID="edit"><FONT SIZE=-1><EM>Edited by djstefan on 03/23/04 02:38 PM (server time).</EM></FONT></P>

I don't think it's so much about money as it is attention...<br><br>Some girls just require the kind of attention that you have to spend a lot of money to give...<br><br>[color:red]You slap my back, I'll slap yours!</font color=red>

"On your first date, show up with a rose at her door, take her out on the bus where you can talk and look at each-other, then go to a park where the beauty of nature will get her hormones jumping to the sky and give you the possibility of putting your hands around her."<br><br>Damn, that's good! I hope John reads this!!!!!! <br><br><br>

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What a wife Mike ;-). Exactly what I'm talking about. I don't expect to ask a girl "hey lady, you pay this time." If she can't natural realize it like your wife did, then I just can't get attracted to her. To another guy she can be the greatest girl, its just my view, and maybe only a minority of men have this view, but its still some men.<br><br> Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country .