first, off, hi guys and gals!

ok, when i updated my iphone 4s to ios7, i got a screen message saying my email addresses had "been added to molly".who the hell is molly? where might i look to find and delete "her?"
actually, my ipad also did this, but with another name.

next up, is there a way to use my iphone to control youtube on my ipad (new ipad)?
(sometimes i watch videos on the ipad, but with the ipad in a position where many can see it, etc. it would be nice to be able to control it from my iphone.)

tia!