I can't speak for anyone else
but I don't "BLAME" him for much (of being bogged down)
He's caught between a rock and a hard place and doing
the best he can to stay balanced, focused and moving
forward in spite of all the hobbles and hurdles.

I think what bothers me the most on a gut level is
watching him age practically before my eyes.
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"...or am I a butterfly dreaming she's a woman?"