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I could care less what his preferences in the bedroom are....
I assume you mean that in an iconic way, as in sexual preferences. But the "reality" since that's suddenly the hot word in this thread is much broader than that. We hetero's tend to forget or fail to acknowledge the emotional content of homosexual relationships. What goes on "in the bedroom" is really a very small piece of the holistic reality. I can only guess that to be damned for one's physical attraction to another is half as painful as being damned for the emotional attraction.

This isn't so much about who's reality it is as much as it's about the depth and breadth of those realities. I'm just sayin'...
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