Thanx 4 the link,
I went to YouTUBE and listened to a few more
of Mr. Wise's lectures on racism & white privedge...
it occurred to me pretty early on that it reminded
me of the rolling rowe I had with my mum.

Yeah...
...this is one long-over-due conversation. frown
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