Carmela was complex. When she wanted the divorce, went to the black counselor, who told her to just take the children and walk away and leave the life style and money. She couldn't do it. She wanted the money and position that Tony gave her but didn't want him.

She loved being the top wife.

When AJ had Devon over and she mentioned how much the statue cost. At first wouldn't tell but in same breath bragged it cost $3000.

AJ with that pseudo concern about his being so rich and so many others note having much. Then just after that his friend and him going over to Devon's to discover what it is to be really rich, with Picasso's hanging all over the walls. Discovering he is still just a Shiite .

If we don't count our blessings
We are just wasting our time