When I've thought of this, I've always said. " first I would pay off my credit cards?

I think things might be easier. I wouldn't change much. Some traveling. Might get one of those yachts on wheels and drve around the country seeing the sights and talking to folks.

As for security at our gathering. No bother. I'd be there. whistle

If we don't count our blessings
We are just wasting our time