Steak, that's my kinda celebration.

As an addend:

Last night, a friend was over to watch a little TV. Her name is Lillie. She has just retired after working as a social worker for the state. We are just friends. She is also dealing with cancer.

I was feeling morose. I told her that it seemed that I was supposed to do something with my extra time I have been given, but that I wasn't doing anything.
She replied. "To take care of me"

That got me. We eat out often, and I help her a bit, but that's all. We aren't romantically connected, just friends. We even discuss her boy friends.

But her comment got to me.

As I mentioned earlier. We just don't know when we affect someone.

If we don't count our blessings
We are just wasting our time